Where My Eyes Gaze, My Heart Will Follow

God is so amazing. I have been on a bit of a journey over the past few weeks and He has revealed much to me. I don't know exactly how it began, but at one point I noticed that I was feeling disconnected from God. While I was still hearing from Him, still worshiping Him, still reading my Bible, I just wasn't feeling that active joy I've had in Him for the past few years. I still loved and wanted to serve Him, but did not know exactly how to go about doing that. Nothing I tried seemed to "work." It was as if I had jumped off of the boat without knowing it and was missing the ride. I've been through valleys with God before but this was different. I kept trying various things to get the resulting connection I desired. I fervently prayed to hear Him more clearly, see Him more obviously, feel Him more closely. I hungered, I longed, I sulked for that joy I seemed to have lost. Never did I turn my eyes from God, not once...well, not really.

So, in the midst of all this spiritual turmoil I was feeling, God gave me this dream:

I was in a room with a bunch of people. It felt like high school. There were small groups chatting with each other. I was talking to a male friend of mine and, as my interest in him was romantic, I invited him over for a visit later. After our conversation I sensed that his feelings did not mirror my own and so I decided to move on. I quickly engaged in conversation with another guy and found myself flirting with him. I asked him for some advice. I, apparently, had not attended classes all semester and was wondering if I should even bother come exam time. He told me that I should just do what is easy, what makes me feel good. His advice made me feel better and the romance continued to grow. My previous interest appeared again, but in the form of a girl. She had made me a very intricate and beautiful book-like card explaining her feelings for me. I glanced through it quick enough to register the idea that she was sad, felt rejected and was indeed very interested in me. My heart was saddened slightly but I put up a wall of defense right away. I reasoned that it was not my fault, that she didn't reciprocate my feelings, and now I had moved on. I went back to my new, and exciting romance. We continued to flirt, thinking we were well hidden, but I looked up to see many eyes staring at us with disapproval. At first I was concerned, but very quickly a "who cares" attitude took over. I chose to leave with this guy only to pass my previous interest once again, who had taken on yet another form - this time of another male friend. He was very upset as he watched me leave with this new guy, but I no longer cared. I was happy.

At first this dream made little sense to me until I wrote it down, all the while listening for the Spirit to lead me in it's interpretation. The initial thing I saw was that my first romance was Jesus. The manifestation of Him in three different forms reminded me of the trinity, but also that He can (and does) appear to us in many different forms, ones that we may not expect. I saw myself straying from my "first romance" (my first Love) because I did not get the reciprocation I had expected. Instead I searched elsewhere and found a sinful romance. After all, what kind of godly person would give advice such as that-to do what is easy and makes me feel good. I became aware that God was showing me the far too easy downward spiral that can happen when we let sin into our lives, or make bad choices. First I turned from God, who was gently wooing me with great detail and care (as I saw from the intricate card He made). Then I took a step further and walked into the arms of that sinful romance. Initially there was guilt associated with it, but in the end I stopped caring about anything but myself.

While I was grateful for the message in this dream, it also troubled me. God revealed that just because I am not getting the reaction from loving Him which I desire, it doesn't mean that He isn't loving me. I actually knew this, which is why I kept pursuing Him, but it was a needed reminder. The thing that kept eating away at me was the degeneration of my love for God. I thought, this must be a warning of where I might end up, should I remain on this path. I couldn't see how that was possible, after all, I was still loving God...or was I?

After much analyzing and questioning, I chose to give up problem solving. I have a tendency to do that. I love to find the route of things, an explanation, so that I can solve the issue at hand. However, doing so kept me going in circles. I began praying that He would help me to focus on Him instead of on myself and how I was feeling, what I was missing, what I wanted. After all, He's already given me the greatest gift He could, who am I to ask for more? Not only that, but it is rather exhausting thinking about me all the time and I would much rather it be about Him.

Well, once again, God answered. Praise the Lord! The other night I was thinking about Him and realized that some of that joy had returned. I was elated! Since then, even more has found it's way back into my heart. The journey, however, did not end there. I set out to share what I learned and, as He continues to do, God has blessed me through this blog and has revealed more revelations and clarity.

I said before that I never turned my eyes from God, but I had; that I was still loving Him, but I was not (not very well, at least). I was wrapped up in myself, focused on what I wanted from Him. I was waiting for God to reward me for loving Him, and in a specific way even. But true love does not expect anything in return. Just as in my dream, I had looked to God just quickly enough to see His love for me. I now see that indeed the dream was entirely about me and not just a warning. Not loving Him without expectation, being caught up in what I yearned for Him to give me-that was the sinful romance. God was reminding me of who He is - the only one worthy of our praise and worship, the creator of all things, the beginning and the end, the Holy One, the One who is love. Who am I to question how He reveals Himself to me? Who am I to try and paint Him into a corner or put Him into that proverbial box? Like Job, I need to remember to focus on God at all times. Fortunately, I didn't need to go through the same experience to learn that! In hindsight I see that what I masqueraded as focus on God was actually focus on myself. Even though my thoughts were about Him, they were rooted in what He can do for me.

During this journey I had also received another message, more than once. In wanting to just love God and focus on Him, I chose to ask how I could do that-since everything I was trying did not seem to be working. I heard Him say "sing." I didn't get it until today. I was listening to a song that spoke of singing all the time; singing praises to our creator during the good times and the bad. In other words, in case it hasn't hit home yet, focus on God at all times. Worship Him at all times.

While I could feel something was "off" for weeks, I think this was so hard to pin point because originally it came from a place of goodness. It started out with a desire for more God, more of those highs we all feel when He's touched us so personally. Somehow the desire became selfish and all about me. It became a need to repeat what I had felt before, and on a larger scale, but I forgot to put God before the desire. Yes, He will give us the desires of our hearts, but our hearts need to be aligned with His first.

In my dream, our loving and caring Father was watching me and mourning, despite the fact that I walked out the door on the arm of my sin. Even as I struggled in my awake hours, I know that He continued to care, that he felt saddened as He kept constant watch over me. Even during this temporary relapse He was there, patiently waiting and gently wooing me back. He truly is a romantic.

Lord, I ask for Your forgiveness. Though I knew in my head that you are the great I Am, my heart lost sight of that for a while. I am sorry for that. Thank You for calling me and shifting my focus back to you. Since my eyes began gazing into Yours again, I have again found the joy that loving You brings. Joy that helps me to enjoy the good times and find pleasure during the harder times. May this lesson be a reminder to others that might struggle from time to time with this same issue. May they hear You calling their gaze back to You, back to that place of joy and love. Amen.

My Commission

This entry is a little different. About four months ago my Pastor (and friend) gave a sermon and asked, "What is your commission from God?" He also handed out a guide to help us through the exercise of deciphering what that may be. It took a while for me to find time for this project, and a week or so to complete, but it was well worth it. Lately, I feel God has been prompting me to revisit that time in prayer andconversation . I also feel that He has given me a green light to share this here. Therefore, below you will find the results of what I felt God saying about my personal commission on this earth. I approached this question using listening prayer and wrote in the style of a journal, but also followed the guide we received. My questions and comments are in black and what I felt God was speaking is in yellow.

My Commission From God

#1 My commission from God has a goal which I can fix my attention on

Lord, I already know that my commission is to love others, but that is everyone’s purpose. How is this a specific commission for me – different from the command for us to love each other?

My task is not to merely love others but to give of myself. It is making myself available when others need to talk or just have a friend near by. It is about true relationships with a purpose – getting down to heart matters, opening my heart and soul to others so that they may see/hear Jesus through me, thus showing them His eyes. I am also called to carry them (not their burdens) in my heart.

Lord, You’ve given me so many talents. I am fairly good at a lot of things but only great at this one (loving). Actually, everything for me boils down to love. Why is that?

Without love my other gifts are useless. My other gifts are to be used to love others. I have been blessed with them so that I can love many different people in many different ways.

THAT is an awesome job! – to love people FOR You! How blessed am I?! Thank you for that honour!

I still don’t understand how this is a commission and not just a commandment. Again, how is this different?

Looking at other examples:

Paul loved – he preached the Truth

D’s friend loves – he gives of his time and energy to help

S loves – she teaches

I love….....I give of myself and my many talents.

I feel God saying that I am “washing the feet of their hearts.” …often the dirtiest part of one, but necessary to get where you are going. (That’s a HUGE responsibility and commission. It not longer seems so “ordinary.” It also feels over my head when I look at it that way….but that is where I need to lean on God, for I cannot do it on my own! This makes it feel like more of a mission now, rather than just a commandment.) I also hear the word “vessel” – a vessel for Jesus’ love?

Is it possible that my loving to love makes a difference? Instead of feeling like I should or have to, I actually feel like I NEED to? I receive joy from loving others, but the ultimate joy comes when I bring Jesus into the picture. Much of this joy is from seeing Jesus revealed, shining back at me as a result of the love I’ve given.

Yes, I am a vessel for Jesus to make his way into some one’s heart. (He is using me to open doors that need a human form to turn the knob – a more tangible form of God’s love?)

“LOVE AS I HAVE LOVED YOU”

I have a hard time accepting this is you speaking and not my ego. Possibly because I fear myself lacking humbleness. After all, what could be better than being a vessel for you? I certainly need your strength, guidance and wisdom to do this. It’s HUGE! When I look at it as a commission, not just a way to “be”, it becomes really scary to do without you – not to mention impossible!

#2 My content is…

I think, it may go back to the statement of “love as I have loved you.” I believe Jesus IS my content. His ways, example and words.

#3 My activities are…

To love, listen, encourage, help, pray, follow up, speak with a tongue guided by Jesus, make time for people, give of myself and my time, let others into my heart as well as listen to theirs (two way road – develop trust). I think that there will be a time I am called to prioritize the friends God puts in my path. That my work with some of them will be done for a time and I need to have the wisdom to see where I need to spend my time.

#4 My way of measuring progress will be…

Seeing Jesus’ eyes reflected back at me

Seeing hearts opening up and accepting Jesus’ love (thus seeing healing in some cases)

Feeling more of Jesus in me – that “addictive high”

Relationships will flourish and grow even deeper and more easily. Trust and love will grow.

#5 My way of being plugged into God is…

While I have many ways of plugging into God in general, I think that for this specific task it would be:

Spending time in prayer with God – listening for His prompting, guidance and wisdom

Waiting on Him to respond to questions and speak into my heart

Keeping ears/eyes open for opportunities

Constantly worshipping Him to maintain perspective – so I continue to realize how awesome this gift of loving his children, my brothers and sisters, is!

Conclusion:

God is calling me to LOVE OTHERS AS HE HAS LOVED ME by becoming a sacrifice for him. I am here to do his work and so my relationships should be ones of purpose. While I can expect to enjoy them, life here is not about me. There is a greater picture. I am called to open up my heart to others, creating a reciprocal trust, so that Jesus may shine His light through me. Of course, all of this has to be done with His guidance and wisdom for I cannot do it on my own.

This song has been on my heart a lot lately, but now even more of it makes sense to me, and speaks to me as a theme song, after going through this exercise.

Lord You Have My Heart (by Delerious)

Lord you have my heart (I gave him my heart in a vision I had, as only he can be trusted with it)

And I will search for yours (now I am looking to Him to hear where he would have me minister to others…seeking His heart for others)

Let me be to you

A sacrifice (I am to sacrifice myself to do His will, my entire self, not just a portion of me. Loving others requires I give myself to Him completely)

Lord you have my heart

And I will search for yours

Jesus take my hand

And lead me on (I need his hand to lead me, his guidance, for I cannot follow this road without Him. I do not have the capability to do these things, but He does and He can use me – which is so completely awesome to me!)

And I will praise you Lord (Without the praise, I lose my focus on the importance of the task at hand as well as where the glory is to go)

And I will sing of love come down (Love, what more can I say…I do sing of His love…constantly. It is the only thing that really matters)

And as you show your face (He will show his face, through others, through me, through our love)

We’ll see your glory here (He will be glorified in all of this, for we, as humans, cannot love like this on our own)

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Why has God been asking me to revisit this commission? For one thing, I believe I have lost sight of it lately. I have been nudged a few times in the past couple months as I haven't been fulfilling my role. I have felt like I am going through a dry spell lately with the Lord, even though I read, pray and still deeply love Him. I have been craving so much more of Him. Looking back at my measurements for progress, however, it's evident to me that my commission has not been taken seriously over the past two months. I realize that we all go through quiet times where we still love God but don't have that "connection" with Him, and that's okay. That may be the case this time for me, but retropectively I think He is drawing me back to Him. Reviewing this has been a good reminder and refrehser for me to put effort into living out my commission - not JUST love God.

My hope in sharing this is that you too may take some time to walk with God through your own commission. Some of the dreams I have shared have made reference to each of us having "work" to do on this earth. While the most important command is to love God and then love each other, part of loving God is to follow what He has planned for us. I don't think many of us know what that plan is. While prior to seeking my commission, I was aware of acomplishing something God had set before me, this has opened my eyes to a brighter light. Now, instead of walking out the door in the morning and wondering what God has planned for me, I can ask specifically who He wants me to love.